I am constantly engaged in an "Are you going to have more kids" conversation. I really do not understand the fascination with other people's wombs but ok. Honestly I think about having more kids all of the time but then reality kicks in and I'm always like
Cause realistically having babies is not easy-peasy-fresh and easy. Kids take A LOT of WORK! Yes they are cute, they are adorable, but they are WORK! I'm not even talking about finances. Take finances out of the equation for just one second .... babies are work on your body, your mind and your time. That is ... if you're trying to be a semi-good parent. All of that cuteness fades away at 3 am when little cuteness is not trying to sleep or is sick or is teething. Cuteness goes out of the window when you have a little monster kicking you in the worst way with one foot and tap dancing on your bladder with the other foot in the wee hours of the night. Cuteness fades when you have to lug a diaper bag, stroller, car seat, etc just to go to the grocery store. And I dont know anyone who is cute when they devour all of your time. Time with the girls? Forget it! Time with your man. Forget it! Time for yourself? Forget it! Now put finances back into the equation, babies are expensive! I thank God daily that our expenses were not unbearable while conceiving, delivering and raising baby number two. Unlike baby number 1, baby number 2 did not go to the daycare. That's a good $800 in our pocket right there. So
I have my girl and my boy. I'm good. Maybe many years down the line, I will possibly consider giving Paige a younger sibling but I highly doubt it.
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